“What happened the first time, won’t happen the second time. What happened the second time, will happened for the third time” -Paulo Coelho

Do you know what it means? When you make mistakes for the first time, you’ll learn and try not to make the same mistakes again. When you made the same mistakes for the second time, it will happen again for the third times. Why? There are two explanations. First, you don’t learn. Second, you learned but you can’t change it because it is part of your nature. For the first explanation, it means you’re just stupid. For the second explanation, I feel sorry for you. Really, I am. The most common reason for someone to do mistakes over and over again is this: “It’s not deliberate and therefore not my mistake, just bad luck”. People who fall within that category, often confused between wrongs and misfortunes. They think it’s not their fault and blamed the misfortunes, while in truth it really is their mistakes. This self-defense mechanism rooted deep in their way of thinking, until it’s helpless because their way of thinking ironically obstructs their growth. Then some of us just said “fuck you” and some of us who can look deeper, said “I feel sorry for you” and in this case, me. Are you that person? The kind of person who can’t be successful, and blamed the misfortunes. The kind of person who aren’t accountable, and you make reasons or alibis. I hope I’m not.